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Why are we so tough on ourselves...

August 23rd, 2006 at 08:38 pm

There is a saying that "there is nothing like the pressure we place on ourselves". Think that is my problem at the moment...

If someone were to ask if I was doing everything possible to get out of debt I would have to admit "nearly everything".

Areas I need to still sort out:
1. Cancel cable TV = $55 savings. Having a tough time with this one - I love cable TV and have the TV on while I am sewing. I don't ever just sit and do nothing in front of the TV. Think I am going to give it one more month and see if I can cover the cost through my sewing orders/income/clothes savings etc.

2. Garage Sale - still need to price things. Money from this is going to my EMF

3. Medical insurance - the cost of the insurance will balance out with what I am currently paying for Dr/Dentist/Meds etc. BUT more importantly I will have the peace of mind that we have it.

4. CC3 - used it again during August just to get through the month for absolute necessities ie groceries, gas.
Need to get my income up to cover this with cash.

Progress I have made:
1. Baking & cooking from scratch - no take outs during August

2. Used up leftovers

3. Selling clothes I no longer wear

4. Sold Timeshare - that is a big one

5. No office supplies bought at all

Sorry I needed to ramble... see you tommorrow

6 Responses to “Why are we so tough on ourselves...”

  1. drew1980 Says:
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    If you enjoy the programming on cable tv, then it makes sense to stay with it. I've never had cable myself, but I watch tons of videos from the library. You actually have several alternatives:

    1) a basic cable package (usually about 12-20 channels, costing $10 or less per month). Here in Boston, this includes all of the major networks, PBS, CNBC and an assortment of about 6 other cable networks.

    2) an antenna (if you can get reception - some people can't pick up any channels without cable)

    3) cold turkey (probably not the best option, especially if you have favorite television shows or rely on televised news)

    You might find that your favorite cable channels are still on the basic package though - and that alone could result in some big savings. Good luck!

  2. Bookie Says:
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    Sounds like you're doing everything reasonable. You did't get into debt overnight, and digging out will take some time.

    I hope you'll manage to keep the cable TV. We all need to build little rewards and satisfactions into our lives even as we trim expenses and pay down debt. The temptation is to do the financial equivalent of a crash diet, which works for a while but isn't really sustainable.

    Doing "everything possible" can lead to a bleak and joyless existence. We can't live like that; at least I can't.

    Good luck

  3. StressLess Says:
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    DH and I are actually much happier with the $10 a month cable, along with the $9.99 "one disk at a time" plan at Netflix. (Plus the public library.) It's still a savings over the $50 we used to pay for cable, and we still have plenty to watch.

    Congratulations on selling the timeshare!

  4. LuckyRobin Says:
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    We gave up cable tv and I honestly don't miss it. It is odd not having it on in the background sometimes but I can play books on tape or CD for that or have music going. Oh, sometimes I miss the late night talk shows but my sleeping pattern has improved and that was just candy tv anyway, nothing substantial.

    Really, with Netflix and the library, I have plenty to watch. I also have the satisfaction of knowing that I won't get hooked on some terrific new network show, only to have them cancel it after ten episodes or something. Now, I can just get full seasons of shows out of the library at a time. No waiting for the next installment, no fear that the show will be cancelled, not kicking myself because I forgot to set the VCR or set it to the wrong channel. Just a totally happy viewing experience.

    There are really only 2 shows that I even feel the least bit irritated about having to wait for them to come out on DVD, and I can live with being irritated for a savings of $780 a year.

  5. freeme journey Says:
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    Think I will give it another month before I make a decision on the cable. It is the last luxury we have left and like I said "I really enjoy it" and it is my only entertainment expense. We don't eat out at all, the take outs have stopped and we don't go to movies (wait for them on cable).
    At less than $2 per day for entertainment on demand I guess it is not too bad - Ha ha ha now all I am doing is justifying the expense...
    We'll see...

  6. flash Says:
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    I agree to cutting tightly, but not so tight that you feel deprived. The trauma patients I work with are told ONE THING AT A TIME...they aren't asked to quit smoking while they are quitting other harmful coping skills. Get your budget down to the bone...but not to the point where you give up, or go back to gambling. Addictions are a tricky thing. Give yourself some well deserved praise! Then, maybe think about the cable Smile

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